Emotional IQ, real life example of idiot vs idol…

I was thinking about emotional intelligence (EQ) today and how so many of us lack in because we are hiding. Yup, I’m referring to an incident I had with the notorious Sue. Where she claimed she was a wise elder in emotional intelligence when she was just an attacker of those that had any.

Let me try to explain the shituation I found myself in one lovely day as I was trying to be part of this world I had woken up to…

I have this lovely friend who, like me, puts herself out there for others. I find inspiration in this person daily for how she shows up in the world when it has done everything to try to keep her down. In an effort to be the person she is, she put on an event and opened her house to a group of ladies she barely knew. Being vulnerable is a strength the oppressors view as a weakness. Think on that as you put sugar in your wine… Anyway, this beautiful lady, Fiona, is a great hostess. OMG!! Does she go all out. See, she makes sure she knows all your dietary restrictions and has plans for them. It requires a lot of work, if you have ever done it, and usually a few different grocery stores and very expensive items. Yet, Fiona does this and still participates in the event and is vulnerable to those she tries to welcome in her life.

Well, Sue sees this as time to attack. She told us we hated white men and that we basically suck. And Fiona was very upset. And when Fiona got upset, she took a moment. and then came back for a conversation. I was shocked by all of this and just getting to know these people. Kat had said gross things out the side of her mouth that only Fiona and Sue could hear so she could be a passive aggressive little bitch. And then promptly left as quick as she could after the insults under her breath, she proclaimed to the group loudly how great Fiona was a left before she could get kicked out.

This is an example of someone without any EQ (sue) attacking someone with a very high level of EQ (Fiona). See, sue is so insecure in her life, herself, her journey that she must attack other strong women around her. Sue sees the opportunity to control others as something that was done to her when the white man controlled and raped her. So she is projecting her desire to want to control and like them, rape others. So she does it verbally, in their homes, or has others attack them cuz she wants to use racial slurs to help control you too. Don’t fall for it. GET AWAY FROM THOSE PEOPLE, they don’t want to help you. When you find a sue out there like this, run the other way. They are not worth your time or effort and will continue to try to pull you down with their every breath because of how gross they are. Shyt, one of them stands in front of the president and says he is a great guy. Has a baby that in another 10 years, if trump is still alive he will probably try to rape… and she might even defend that cuz she’s that sick of a bitch.

tell the sue in your life to FUCK OFF